What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence, without a standard kind and fixed outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, always with regard for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The impact is frequently a fantastic physical, psychological well-being. Typically, the receiver is very relaxed, wonderfully streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are connected with his/her heart. The touch is caring, always concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Filled with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on providing or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never know how it will end up. It is not the method or the desired series of rubbing that is very important, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? What is good for her/him? Love understands what to do, enjoy always has a proper response. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Sufficient is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long period of time, naturally, however since the #MeToo revelations, some things have turned up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly need to be ensured. Caring attunement always comes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also necessary (check out the post on securing borders. So think in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is an appropriate intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about psychological borders, as well as take care for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to always be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also entirely ok (however hard to deal with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. In addition, actually each cell is sensuous, but you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial function again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but typically, that is a process in time. Tantra understands various methods to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no purpose aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (happy) state of being.
Usually leading to a terrific physical, psychological wellness
Tantra assists you to end up being more relaxed, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving and so far more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what happens often: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is totally permitted! A tantra massage is normally nice, in some cases tasty. We, therefore, welcome you to completely delight in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in typical. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (intended at pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, but of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are really super energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are very exhausted), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a kind of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage certainly has recovery effects, but that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage ideas-- prior to you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Tantric couples massage Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is demand totally free, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Construct in combination (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own problems and above all ... do not try to force anything. Absolutely nothing has actually to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, do not attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can come up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and provide integration moments (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery result. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries concern the surface. There may be an emotional release, including physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Although tantra massage is not the like healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it is like to enjoy yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides an incredibly liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might end up being not only happy however even euphoric. A happy state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a wonderful physical, mental wellness (of both).